Shelly Headen, a Democratic candidate for the North Carolina House in District 62, posted in a Facebook group called "Democrats, Republicans and Independents for Democracy" that "our only hope is an attack on US Soil… preferably Alabama, Louisiana… where the stupid people live."
Her own party just cut her loose.
Sam Lozier, communications director for the North Carolina House Democratic Caucus, issued a statement that left no wiggle room: "Shelly Headen's posts are unacceptable and do not reflect the values we expect of our candidates. The North Carolina House Democratic Caucus condemns these comments without qualification and will not support Shelly Headen's candidacy."
The posts, made about a year ago, surfaced alongside a collection of Headen's other social media commentary. She'd compared Trump to Hitler, written that the "MAGA cult may be more destructive and evil than the Nazis," and declared that "this is something more frightening than the holocaust!" Standard stuff from someone who spends too much time in political Facebook groups. But wishing for a domestic attack on states full of people you disagree with crosses a line that even the North Carolina Democratic Party couldn't pretend to ignore.
Here's one example of her posts
House Speaker Destin Hall, a Republican from Caldwell, pointed out what made the comments especially awkward for the Democratic establishment. "A candidate bankrolled and backed by Josh Stein and House Democratic Leadership is calling for an attack on American soil," Hall said. "Absolutely disgusting."
Rep. Allen Chesser, a Republican representing House District 25, responded with the weight of someone who actually knows what attacks on American soil look like. Chesser served in the Army National Guard and flew over 100 combat missions in Iraq. His response, published days before the anniversary of September 11, carried a specific gravity that Headen's keyboard commentary never could.
"An attack on American soil is not a quirky metaphor," Chesser said. "It is real people with real lives lost. It is families that never sit down to dinner the same way again. It is a generation of kids who grow up without a parent."
Here's another one of Headen's posts
He went further. "When a candidate for the North Carolina House writes that 'our only hope is an attack on US soil… preferably Alabama, Louisiana… where the stupid people live,' that is not simply being flippant or edgy. It is not cute or clever. It is wishing for violence against your fellow citizens."
Headen's defense, offered to The Assembly, was to compare herself to Jesus Christ, Martin Luther King Jr., and Abraham Lincoln. "I've sacrificed myself just like Jesus sacrificed himself on the cross, and Martin Luther King and Abraham Lincoln and all the people that put themselves out there to sacrifice for our country," she said. She also dismissed the posts as "a few angry moments" and said that "if a few angry moments on social media are the end, then so be it. MAGA will keep winning if we continue with not standing up for what's right."
So wishing for a terrorist attack on Americans in red states is "standing up for what's right." That's the clarification.
The district she's running in — House District 62 in Guilford County — carries a Civitas Partisan Index rating of R+2. Republican state Rep. John Blust won the seat in 2024 with 53.4% of the vote, beating Democrat Marjorie Benbow by 3,792 votes. It's competitive enough that a serious candidate could make a race of it. Headen is not that candidate.
Chesser said it plainly: "Public office is about trust. Character should be the first qualification. Wishing harm on Americans — any Americans — should disqualify any individual for public office before the arguments over policy even start."
Some candidates lose elections. This one answered the question before voters had to.